When people see the slightest of weakness on you, they target that and use it against you. On the other hand, they also target you when they see that you are strong, thinking that you can probably just deal with it. When you’ve spent your time and dignity building an image of yourself that shows you as being strong as a rock but in reality… on the inside you’re nothing but feebleness and emotions. People think it’s actually okay to pick on someone and tear apart what little self esteem they have just from what they portray them as. They think that they can handle it. They think that they can do all this to them just because they’re “strong.” They pick and choose every last bit and piece until there is nothing left. You begin to fall into this bottomless pit where it seems as though there is no way out of it. You just keep falling, and falling,and falling. There’s only one way out but you feel as though there’s no chance of getting there. So you just keep going deeper and deeper until you’ve reached your limit and say you had enough. You end it.
Then, they go off saying how “they shouldn’t have died,” “they were a beautiful,” “they would have been a use to this world.” Why don’t people say these things when the person is alive. It would’ve changed their minds about their decision. However, others still go along acting as if they didn’t have anything to contribute to what had happened. As if they were completely innocent. As if what that one person did was completely their fault and no one had anything to do with it. Which makes me really think, How absent minded can a person really get? How can you be so blind to what you were saying and doing to a person? How can you not feel the guilt of participating in what you have done to this innocent person? But you know what they say… Ignorance is Bliss.
Shout out to the man that makes my heart melt just by smiling.
” If you spend too much time thinking about what you want to do in life, you forget about living the life you’re living right now.”
– John O’ Callaghan
Sometimes you just need to get your nose out of that text book and just take a walk outside and soak up some of that Vitamin D! Personally, I’m the kind of person that is always in the house either doing something very productive, such as studying, or playing mindless games on my parents’ iPad mini. Fascinating, isn’t it? No, I actually regret some of the days that I waste on pointless things like games. I always tell myself that I’m going to change this terrible habit of mine but nothing prevails. However, the thing that motivates me the most is probably blogging about it. It actually helps. I put down all your thoughts and goals in words on this blog, it does assist me in achieving them, no joke. Even right now, it makes me want to just take a stroll in my neighborhood and just think about random things like puppies yawning (SO CUTE).
I also believe that if people just have 10-15 minutes a day just to themselves it would make their day go/end so much better. Just sitting there, eyes shut, and worries gone, almost like meditating without the “OMMMM,” is so relaxing and tension relieving. So, just go outside and live your life, take some risks, and GET INVOLVED. Many people would say not to get involved but hey, it creates memories and maybe even some of the best memories so why not? I would like to advise everyone to live it up!
“We All Have Been Degraded, We All Will Be The Greatest”
– John O’Callaghan.
This has got to be one of my favorite quotes by him to be honest. He even has this tattooed on his chest (as seen in the picture above). For the absolute reason i love this quote from him is because its speaks the honest truth from the heart and is also very witty with its play on words.
To begin with, the first half of the quote is saying that he all have had our struggles whether it was in your past, right now, or later on in your life. I believe that everyone gets the same amount of struggles in their life as everyone else does. Some get them all at once and others get them a few here and a few there, but the kicker is that if that person is strong enough to handle them.
The other half of the quote is saying that through all the obstacles in our lives, there will be something that we are proud of and will be known for. Which means we should always keep an open mind to new things. We never know when/what/where/how we are going to discover our hidden talent. So go discover the world!
“The what-if’s and the should-have’s will eat your brain.” – John O’Callaghan